Wednesday, December 16, 2009

My Guest Today is Author,

Loree Lough, promoting Prevailing Love and Tales of the Heart:

Loree is a fun person who loves people and writing. Read on for an insight into what makes her "tick" and such a success in this business. (NOTE: I’ve heard she has over 70 books in print. Whooee!)

How long have you known that you were a writer? Did you receive a clear "call?" Or have you just loved writing all your life?

First, thank you, Carole, for providing authors this opportunity for readers to get to know them a little better! You’re gracious and generous and everything a true Christian should be, and I’m proud to know you!

As a teen, I entertained the kids I babysat by telling stories, and even the most unruly brats grew calm and quiet, hearing themselves as stars of the tales. I moved from those to non-fiction stories in magazines and newspapers, and when publishers started messing with the facts to appease advertisers, I decided as long as I was sorta writing fiction anyway, why not be up front about it and write short stories! I sold quite a few (confession mags, etc.), but I didn’t take the gift seriously until after my first novel hit the shelves. Reader mail made it clear, for the first time in my life, what God wanted me to do. And I’ve been doing it ever since!

What is the genre you write in? Would you explain what it is?

Most of my stories are in the ‘inspirational romance’ genre, and of the 75 books on the shelves, half are historicals. The way I explain "inspirational"? The novels include all the traditional elements of popular fiction, with one fundamental addition: Spirit-based storylines, based on biblical principles, that are tightly woven into the plots.

How do you spend your writing days? Do you set goals to reach a certain number of words per day? Can you give us a general idea of how long it takes you to write a novel?

I work 6 days a week, 8-10 hours a day (and when I’m on a tight deadline, I’m in my office on Sundays after church, too). I don’t set a ‘word count’ goal when I sit down to write. Instead, I review whatever I worked on yesterday, clean it up, and move forward. Depending on the condition of the prior scene(s), editing could take anywhere from an hour to my whole work day, so I might not add to the overall word count at all!

Most novels require a full week’s worth of research and interviews. Then I spend a day charting out the storyline, another developing characters (background, motivation, conflict, etc.). Once those essentials are complete, I dig in my heels and don’t quit until I’ve typed The End… which for a novel that’s 80,000 words long, usually takes an additional eight weeks.

What is the spiritual message in your latest book? What can readers expect to get from reading it?

The working title for my WIP is "The Outlaw Wore Skirts". It’s the first in a 4-book historical series, and features a heroine wrongly accused of several serious crimes. So the overall spiritual theme is forgiveness. As the story progresses, she must forgive her step-father, whose abuse started the dominos toppling in her life. Then she must forgive herself for all the erroneous decisions she made as a result of it. And interwoven into it all, a steadily-growing need for the Lord that allows her to practice trust, faith, and acceptance.

You recently had a book published. Would you take this time to describe it to us? How and where can readers buy your books?

I’m so blessed to be able to say that Love Finds You in North Pole, Alaska (Summerside Press, released Oct. 1, 2009) has already inspired nearly 100 glowing reviews (from pros and readers). I’m doubly blessed, because it’s my 75th published book!

This is the story of ex-marine Bryce Stone, forced to return to his home town after being wounded in Afghanistan… and he isn’t at all happy about it. For one thing, The City Where It’s Christmas, All Year Long hasn’t felt like home since his parents died a decade earlier. For another, his maiden Aunt Olive’s retirement puts him in the uncomfortable position of taking the helm of his parents’ gift shop, meaning his life-long dream of building one-of-a-kind furniture pieces must move to the back burner, indefinitely.

Enter spunky Samantha Sinclair, whom he hires to run the shop in the hope he can at least attempt to make his dream come true. The youngest of 8 kids, Sam has a lot to prove… to her 7 older brothers, to her parents, to herself, and especially, to Bryce. She quickly realizes that facing the challenges head-on might be enough to satisfy her siblings, but it’ll take more than physical labor and organizational skills to win Bryce over… especially when he loses the only member of his family he has left!

Faith, trust, and love are a powerful combination… but are they enough to heal old wounds and unite these two very different people…?

Where do you get ideas? Character names? Do you find your characters similar to you in any way?

The joke I often make is that I get my ideas from a little elf who lives under my front porch; I poke him with a stick and he’s usually good for at least a few suggestions! But there’s no ‘under’ to my porch, and no ‘elf’, either. So I’m forced to get ideas from newspapers and magazines, from TV news reports, from stories I overhear in line at the grocery store, from friends and relatives who say "Hey, did you hear…?" Everything has the potential of becoming a novel, once I ask those all important questions: "What if?" and "And then what?"

Choosing character names is getting tougher as more books hit the shelves. My ‘baby names’ book is definitely showing signs of wear!

Heroes and heroines in my books all have faults and flaws, just like real people. I share some of those—along with a few bad habits—and I think that’s what makes the characters seem real. In life, I avoid weak, whiny people. Put me in a room with someone who’s overcome adversity, and done it with their back straight and their chin up, and I’ve got the makings of real friend material! Based on letters from my readers, those are the qualities they most identify with, too.

Do you ever feel like giving up? Most people don’t understand the stress, the work, and the joy of being a writer. How tenuous becoming a writer is. Do you care to share how it feels, what discouraging/encouraging times you’ve gone through? Who’s inspired you the most?

Taking a break from pounding the keys, yes, but giving up? Not in my DNA! Most people do NOT understand the writing process. My theory? They think ‘cause they can read a book in a few hours, we can write one in maybe twice that long. Only other authors (and the people who share their homes) understand what a tedious, time-consuming job it is.

For the most part, people just don’t ‘get it’. If they did, they wouldn’t say things like "Lucky Loree! She gets paid for her little hobby!" and "I wish I could stay home all day and do nothing…" and "Of course Loree doesn’t want to retire… it isn’t like she’s actually working…" and "Loree can (insert errand or chore) because she doesn’t have an actual job." (Sadly, those are actual quotes, spoken by friends!)

Then there are those times (at family gatherings or parties) when people who didn’t already know I’m an author ask, "What do you write?" My reply: "Inspirational romance." Eyebrows slam into hairlines. "What’s that?" And after a thirty second explanation, foreheads furrow. Not a whole lot. Just enough so I notice. And they say, "So… when are you gonna write a real book?"

My brain runs down what I could say: My books all have covers. Spines. Back jacket copy. Pages inside, with words on them. I bite back what I’d like to say, as the image of Jack Nicholson, on the witness stand, floats in my head; you know that scene where Tom Cruise bellows "I want the truth!" and Jack snarls, "YOU CAN’T HANDLE THE TRUTH!"? Well, picture this: I smile politely and give ‘em a friendly hug, then stand back and say, "Aw, I wouldn’t worry about it, ‘cause… you can’t handle a real book."

Works every time! LOL

Would you explain how you "chose" (or was chosen) a publisher? Do you just go "inny, minny, miny, moe?" Grin. Now, that you’re published, can you sit back and relax from the success you’ve experienced?

Tempting as it was (still is! ), I’ve never gone the "inny, minny, miny, moe" route. The simple answer is, I have always studied the market. The more detailed one is, I looked at my work in progress, then asked myself what it was. (Historical? Contemporary? Suspense? Thriller? Humorous? A combination of any/all of those?) Then, I asked, what’s this book’s overall theme? (Overcoming adversity? Man v. nature? Boy gets girl?) And what’s the book’s spiritual message? (Forgiveness? Acceptance? Tolerance?) Next, I asked myself which companies were buying that kind of fiction, and got online to find out how many of those they’d published lately. Last, I learned how they preferred to receive submissions, and gave them exactly what they asked for.

Now that I have a few books on the shelves, and a very capable agent, I don’t have to complete a full manuscript to make a sale. A synopsis and a few chapters, usually, and in very rare cases (when I’ve worked with a particular editor before), an overview will do.

In all honesty, I don’t think I’ll ever reach a point where I can sit back and relax, thinking about my so-called success, because the sad fact is… I’m only as successful as my last book.

Do you mind telling us some of your likes and dislikes? Hobbies, interests? Where would you like to travel if you could? Etc.

I like people. Well, most people. LOL! Working alone all day as I do, it’s a blessing to come out of the office and have the ability to interact with others. As I said earlier, I shy away from whiners and complainers, because those attitudes are contagious. I stay away from fibbers and truth-stretchers, because they test my Patience Quota. I pray for both types, but the folks I’m drawn to and become friends with are upbeat, spirit-filled, strong and capable.

Gardening is one of many hobbies, and I wish I had more time for it! I love to paint and sketch (one of my pen and ink drawings hangs in the home of actress Lea Thompson!), bang on the piano and strum my Yamaha.

I find myself satisfying my cravings for new information by reading. Cereal boxes (vitamin info!), recipe cards (caloric data!), milk cartons ("have you seen me?"), even junk mail becomes reading material!

The Lord has blessed me with many wonderful and memorable trips, but the one I haven’t taken yet that I’d like to is… an African safari. When I make that one, hoo-boy the novel is gonna be all kinds of dangerous! LOL

Would you give us your blog or webpage so everyone can check it out? Anything else you’d like to share? Promotional information?

I’d love for everybody to visit me via:

  • Web site:
http://www.loreelough.com
  • Blog: www.theloughdown.blogspotcom
  • Plus

    • Facebook, Shoutlife, MySpace, and Twitter.

    Shameless self-promotion alert!

    • By the time this appears, I will have returned from Detroit, where I taped a segment of the "I’m Just Sayin’" show, hosted by Pastor Dan Willis on the Total Christian Television network (when I find out when it’ll air, I’ll let you know so you can tune in!);
    • Be Still…and Let Your Nail Polish Dry (devotional, co-authored with Andrea Boeshaar, Sandie Bricker, and Debby Mayne) hits bookshelves by November 1st. (All four of us have promised to contribute a generous portion of the proceeds to the Ovarian Cancer Research Fund, so every sale will increase the amount we can donate!);
    • In January, 2010, two new books will be released from Whitaker House… Tales of the Heart (3 complete historical romances) and Prevailing Love (3 full-length contemporaries).
    • In June, #1 in the (tentatively titled) "Rockin’ N Ranch" series, The Outlaw Wore Skirts will be released (followed every 4-6 months by another in the series);
    • During the summer of 2011, additional "Rockin’ N Ranch" titles, along with One Forsaken Man, #1 in my First Responders series from Abingdon Press;

    and

    • Love Finds You in Folly Beach, South Carolina (Summerside).

    Thank you, Loree, for being on my blog.

    Wasn’t that fun, readers? Run to check out Loree’s books. You’ll love them!

    Blessings!


    Monday, December 14, 2009

    Need Another Unusual Gift?



    Try one of these, either for an cat lover or for a family member who has everything.

    A greeting card/gift that will give the receiver something to ponder over through the weeks.
    Materials

    • A collection of items that represent what your family did over the past year
    • Holiday decorations
    • Family photos
    • #9 or #10 business envelopes

    Instructions

    1. Gather your items, such as ballet slippers for a dance recital, a trophy for a winning season, or a mini house for a move to a new home. Assemble the collection, along with festive holiday decorations and family photos, and take a picture of it.
    2. Using a word processing program, compose a greeting that includes a list of what to look for in the photo. If you have a digital camera, insert your photo above the text and print out the page. If you're using a snapshot, leave room at the top, print the page, then tape or glue on the picture. Print or color-copy as many as you need.



    Got a cat lover for a best friend and need something unusual and personal that will tell her you love her no matter whether the cat sheds on your good black clothes or not? Then check out this gift:
    Materials
    • 1 yard of fabric
    • Polyester filling
    • Chalk
    • Scissors
    • Pins
    • Dried catnip
    • 1-foot piece of fabric
    • Needle and thread
    • Embroidery thread

    Instructions

    1. To make the cushion, fold the fabric in half so the patterned sides are touching. Draw an oval on the fabric with chalk, then cut along the outline with scissors to make two ovals of equal size. Pin them together and stitch three-quarters of the way around to create a pocket.
    2. Turn the fabric right side out and stuff it with polyester filling that has been sprinkled with catnip. Turn in the open edge and hand stitch it closed.
    3. The fish is made in the same fashion. Fold a 1-foot piece of fabric in half, draw a fish shape on it, and cut along the outline so to create two fish of equal size. Sew up the sides, leaving the tail open.
    4. Turn the pocket right side out, stuff with polyester filling and catnip, and sew closed.
    5. As a finishing touch, stitch big green eyes and colorful stripes on the fish with embroidery thread.

    Quote: My will shall shape my future. Whether I fail or succeed shall be no man's doing but my own. --Elaine Maxwell

    Blessings!

    Friday, December 11, 2009


    Favorite Kids in my Life


    Jaden
    One of the sweet kids in my life.
    Sunday School kid.
    Loves books.
    Loves me.
    I love him.
    Isn't he adorable?
    Quote:
    Laugh and the world laughs with you; snore and you snore alone. --Anthony Burgess
    Blessings!

    Wednesday, December 09, 2009





    Interview Today with . . . Michele Levigne, my friend and President elect of the ACFWOhio

    How long have you known that you were a writer? Did you receive a clear "call?" Or have you just loved writing all your life?


    I've been daydreaming all my life, adding to stories I loved, making the characters' lives continue past the time the story ended – I can remember rewriting Star Trek episodes when I was in elementary school, putting my own twist on things. Or giving Zorro a daughter long before Catherine Zeta-Jones showed up. I had tried writing down some of my stories probably since junior high, and they usually died after a few pages. Then in high school my daydreams got in the way of semester exams. Not a good thing. I started writing down the current daydream to kill it … and haven't stopped writing since.


    What is the genre you write in? Would you explain what it is?

    My genre is the "Angie Hunt" genre – I write all over the place. Science fiction, fantasy, romance, suspense; with variations into Inspirational and YA. I have several "universes" that I play in. The Commonwealth is science fiction, with a long, complicated history and people with genetically engineered talents and some prophecies and epic battles between good and evil and the question of what it means to be Human. Then there's my Zygradon series – basically Arthurian fantasy, set on another world. I just turned in the 4th book, which will release in April. The 5th book (sob) will be the last. Then there's my Tabor Heights, Ohio series, which is my contemporary Inspirational romance series. I'm just getting going with that at Desert Breeze. The 3rd book was released in November and book 4, "The Family Way," about a marriage in trouble, will come out in March. I have an offshoot series I need to find a publisher for, that's more action/adventure with women as the main characters and a little bit of angelic "interference." There are several more series I've been working on, but I won't mention them here. I could go on and on … but you don't want me to do that.

    How do you spend your writing days? Do you set goals to reach a certain number of words per day? Can you give us a general idea of how long it takes you to write a novel?


    Unfortunately, I have to make a living at something besides my writing. For now, anyway. Between office work and trying to do promotion, I'm happy if I can manage about 2 hours of actual writing time each day. During NaNoWriMo, I was managing to put in at least 1-1/2 hours on new, rough writing every day, first thing in the morning. I loved it! I don't have a goal of words or pages each day. I just write as much as I can, whenever I can. I've found that I can produce more writing if I do it first thing in the morning. If I wait until the end of the day, after I've spent 6 hours editing other people's books, doing bookkeeping, running errands, cleaning the house … I just don't have the energy to be creative!


    It's hard to give an accurate figure for how long it takes to write a book, because some books are longer than others and require more thinking and re-arranging than others. Usually it takes me about 1-1/2 months to do a first draft – if I can manage to put in 1 or 2 hours every day. Say 80 hours for an average book, 75,000 to 85,000 words. Then another 40 hours for the second draft. 40 hours for the third draft. Sometimes I need a fourth and fifth draft, depending on how much revising I need to do – especially if my editor points out instances of "too stupid to live" on my hero or heroine's part. My usual practice is to write a rough draft, then put it aside and work on something else for a few months, then come back and revise it, put it aside, revise, put it aside, revise. With my Zygradon books, I had a deadline of mid-September every year to turn in for April release the following year. So I had to produce each book in about 8 months – in between other projects for other publishers. There are other books that I literally wrote more than 10 years ago, and they've been sitting in my files, waiting for that brainstorm that will make them "work" so I can send them out to find a home.


    Does that answer your question?


    Tell us about your new book. What is the spiritual message in it? What can readers expect to get from reading it? How and where can readers buy your book?


    My most recent release is actually two books – "Seasons," a Tabor Heights, Ohio anthology, from Desert Breeze Publishing (www.desertbreezepublishing.com) and "Just Peachy," the third in my contemporary romantic suspense series at Amber Quill Press (www.amberquill.com). Both books came out November 1.


    There is no spiritual message in "Just Peachy." It's a romp, some silliness and some danger – and takes place in Ohio.


    With "Seasons," some of the stories don't have an overt spiritual message. They're short stories, romances. What connects all the Tabor Heights books is that the main characters are members of Tabor Christian Church. They'll stop and pray, or they'll be involved with church activities, and sometimes when they're smart they'll wonder what God wants them to do. "Troubleshooting," the second story of the four in the anthology, deals with Jake's bad history with other churches. He misses his childhood commitment to God. When he finds Tabor Christian, he's afraid to open up his heart to "church people" again – especially when the girl he follows to church and eventually falls in love with is the prime suspect in an embezzlement he's investigating!


    Where do you get ideas? Character names? Do you find your characters similar to you in any way?
    Ideas come at me from all over the place. Dreams. Stories that didn't work on TV or in books I read, that I rewrite. Offshoots of other stories. Daydreams. And some stories, such as the two Tabor Heights books coming out in 2010, "The Family Way" and "A Quiet Place," came when the pharmacy messed up a prescription and I was in hormonal/chemical depression. I'm not joking! You get the most depressing dreams. Fortunately I realized what was wrong before it went on too long – but a couple weeks was bad enough. Both books have some pain in them, and horrid situations that should not happen among families – especially families that claim to be Christians.

    With my science fiction and fantasy names, I might just make up names from sounds, or borrow them from similar stories/TV shows/movies. Especially if I pattern a character after an actor or the character he or she played. In my Zygradon stories, since they're Arthurian fantasy, I twist a lot of Arthurian names. Merlin is Mrillis, Morgana is Meghianna, Morgause is Megassa, Guenivere is Ynfara, etc.


    I don't think my characters are like me … except maybe that some of them are the way I would like to be someday, strong and capable and able to handle things. And knowing the right words to say at the right time!


    Do you ever feel like giving up? Most people don’t understand the stress, the work, and the joy of being a writer. How tenuous becoming a writer is. Do you care to share how it feels, what discouraging/encouraging times you’ve gone through? Who’s inspired you the most?


    I've been writing, seriously, aiming at publication, since high school. I'm addicted by now. I can't live without my private playgrounds in my head. For a long time, I wasn't getting anywhere, professionally – BUT I was getting publication and recognition in fanzine writing (amateur publications devoted to various TV shows and movies). That kept me going past the "this is a waste of time" phase. I remember my first book and my first rejection letter. I sent it to Zondervan, my first year of college. I can't remember how long it took them to respond, but of course they rejected it. I must have cried for an hour. Nobody told me that a 2-page, single-spaced letter from the editor who reviewed my book was an unusual thing. I don't know where that letter is, but I'd love to find it someday and find that editor and thank him or her for encouraging me.


    Fanzine publication kept me going for probably seven or eight years, until I made my first professional sale, in conjunction with a writing contest. That encouragement lasted me for another 10 years until I signed my first contract, to e-publish "Heir of Faxinor." When I discovered the world of e-publishing, that opened a lot of doors and opportunities. That was in 2000, the same year I discovered RWA and joined the local chapter. When I found a group of people who were writing in somewhat the same area and understood what I was going through, and I learned how to find the information I needed to make that final leap to publication, that made all the difference. I have a lot of gripes with RWA, and I quit several years ago. BUT I can't say enough for belonging to a group of writers who can give you feedback and encouragement – and slap you upside the head when you need a reality check!


    Who has inspired me? That's a hard one. Sometimes the best inspiration is something that was so badly written, with flat characters and too many "too stupid to live" moments – yet got published. My reaction is "I can do better than that!" and then I set out to prove it.


    I keep going back to some words of C.S. Lewis, talking about science fiction and fantasy. He basically envisioned someone someday making better use of the genre as a tool for Christ. That's a challenge I want to continually rise to meet. I've often failed. For a long time I strayed away from that goal because the allegedly Christian publishing houses weren't giving me the time of day (I wanted to write epic fantasy with strong women and they wanted devotionals and prairie romances) – so I went to publishers and readers who wanted the stories I wanted to write. I'm in the process of "cleaning up my act" and letting the contracts on some stories run out. It's a long process. But I'm getting there.


    Would you explain how you "chose" (or were chosen by) a publisher? Do you just go "inny, minny, miny, moe?" Grin. Now, that you’re published, can you sit back and relax from the success you’ve experienced?


    Relax? Never! A literature professor made a remark about famous authors never being able to rest on their laurels, because people are always asking "So what have you written lately?"


    Choosing a publisher … you read the market listing and find the publisher who is looking for what you write. In my case, I found my first publisher in Sally Stuart's column in "The Christian Communicator." It was a new publisher, venturing into e-publishing, and willing to take proposals in all genres. "Heir of Faxinor" is a fantasy – swords, magic, visions, maiden warriors. My publisher told me her only exposure to SF/F was Star Trek, but she was willing to give me a chance!


    Through that, I became exposed to the whole e-publishing explosion. Whenever I heard about an e-publisher looking for books that I had ready or that I was working on, I queried. I had years of books stored in my computer, just waiting to be polished up and sent out. I was willing to take chances. Sometimes I got burned. As I got more experience with publishers, I was able to relax enough to lose the "gotta get published" desperation, so I could afford to become choosy. And in some instances, I've been invited to submit either because of being nominated for writing awards or because the publisher used to be an editor or a fellow author at a previous publisher, they liked my books, and wanted to see what else I had to offer. Networking is important. Never burn bridges. The same adage in traditional publishing goes for electronic: The go-fer you insult today could be the editor you have to placate tomorrow.


    Would you give us your blog or webpage so everyone can check it out? Anything else you’d like to share? Promotional information?


    Web site: http://www.mlevigne.com/ Blog: http://www.michellelevigne.blogspot.com/


    I'm also listed at Author Island – www.authorisland.com

    Publishers:

    Contracted but not yet published:

    Thank you, Michele, for joining me today. I'm sure readers will enjoy reading about your writing journey. May all your novels be sucessful for the glory of God!


    Blessings!

    Monday, December 07, 2009

    Wanna Be Happy?

    The Bible says there's a time to remember . . .
    And a time to forget . . .

    Forget:
    • The mean thing others have said about you.
    • The injury any person has done you.
    • The mistakes you have made in the past, except as they may prepare you for the future.

    • The kindness you have tried to do others.
    • The ill-natured gossip you have heard.
    • The secrets entrusted to your confidence.

    • The worry that hinders your happiness.
    • The drawbacks that seem to stand in the way of your progress.

    Quote:
    Hope throws an arch of rainbow light across the blackest sky and makes a man shout in the teeth of the storm.

    Blessings!

    Saturday, December 05, 2009



    Special People

    One of the highlights of my year! Meeting Diana Flegel, my literary agent.


    She's just as wonderful as she sounds over the phone.
    Knowlegeable, interested, concerned and prayerful about her clients and their work, fun.

    Two of my fellow writers: Max Lewis (in the middle--and he's not really, uh, as snobbish as he looks--snicker--he just had a time getting the rest of us to behave.) His very sweet wife, Valerie, on the end in the white sweater, Connie Cameron between them, wonderful Diana on the end, with me between Max and her.

    Books galore from authors like Tamela Murray Hancock and Doug Varrieur and Connie Cameron. Topics like the market, and critique groups, and research. That subject took us down the trail of dogs, but we managed to curb our ever present curiosity. We even got in some critiquing and brainstorming over Connie's newest project--and is it an exciting topic! Can't wait to see it in print.

    And, of course, we had some of Tim Horton's famous and delicious coffee, and muffins of each individual choice (although certain people who shall remain nameless, deviously got samples of two different types of muffins by ingeniously cutting them in halves. Hmmm).
    • Max writes suspense.
    • Connie is a superb and published nonfiction author.
    • Valerie is a supportive wife. Smile
    • Me, you all KNOW what I write. (That's what comes of having somewhere to talk, I mean write, what I want)
    • And Diana. Our agent. The best.

    A fun, meaningful day.

    Blessings!

    Friday, December 04, 2009

    What Will Christmas Mean to Me?


    Christmas . . .
    isn't only music; it's "Joy to the World"
    isn't just a baby; but the coming of a King


    Not a spirit in a chimney, but a spirit in my heart
    Not a gift worth so much money, but a gift of God to man



    Not only balls that glitter, but a gladness that will shine
    Not only wordy greeting cards, but feelings of good will

    Not a time of obligations, but a willingness to share
    Not just a star for Wise Men, but a guide that still leads me

    Not gifts the shepherds brought to Christ, but myself that I can give
    Not only God in Bethlehem, but Emmauel--God with us.
    --Merna B. Shank



    Quote: It is a brave thing to have courage to be an individual; it is also, perhaps, a lonely thing. But it is better than not being an individual, which is to be nobody at all. --Eleanor Roosevelt



    Blessings